
My Year’s Recap
2019 has been a year of cleaning out for us. We have eliminated lots of items from our home by recycling / tossing, selling, donating and more. Each and every month we have gotten rid of items – everything from paperwork (which was scanned and originals shredded) to unused exercise equipment to streamlining our clothing.
Here are some of the specifics we did:
- Donated formal attire to the local high school formal attire club, work clothes to Dress For Success and more

- Sporting Equipment to the local sports drive
- Books to the Library Book Sale fundraiser
- Cell phones and accessories to Cell Phones for Soldiers
- VHS movies to local senior living facility
- Tools and ladders to Habitat for Humanity Restore
- Old sheets / towels to the animal shelter
- Electronics to the Salvation Army
- Stuffed animals to the local thrift shop
- Office supplies to several non-profits based off their wish lists
- Clothing to the local food / clothing bank
Sometimes this seemed like a never ending project, but there has been much progress. For more information and ideas on what to do with your stuff, please visit my Resources page.
Here’s to a more organized 2020!
Get A Better Understanding of Your Money
Do you want to get a better understanding of your finances? Do you want to pay down or off your debt? Do you want your teens to better understand how money works?
Start off 2020 with a better understanding on your finances and what to do next. 
Here are some workshops I am doing in the coming months at Norwalk Community College. Register now to join me and learn about personal finances and get your questions answered.
For my schedule at Norwalk Community College and information on how to register,
Oh No, The Holidays Are Coming!
The holidays are coming! The holidays are coming! Guard your budgets and hold onto your wallets. You might be thinking I’m crazy, but the retailers have positioned their holiday displays to disarm you of your cash, especially this year with fewer shopping days between Thanksgiving and the Holidays.
Did you shop on Black Friday and Cyber Monday?
Can you make this year different? Can you stick to your list and not overspend? You can if you make a detailed plan. Write down exactly what you will be buying and the dollar amount you plan to spend.
Here are some suggestions that should help you with your holiday budget list.
1. Gifts 
- How much for immediate family?
- How much for extended family?
- How much for friends and co-workers?
- How much for people whose services you use?
2. Entertaining
- How much will it cost when you host a gathering?
- How much will you spend on hostess gifts when you attend a party?
3. Travel
- How much will it cost for local travel (gas, tolls, parking, etc)?
- How much will it cost for long distance travel?
- How much will it cost for vacation?
4. Traditions – this can be anything from an afternoon tea to a night on the town.
If you write it all down, you might realize you’re planning on spending $300-$500 on gifts for people who aren’t on your immediate family list. And hosting dinners can be expensive just because you want to put on a good appearance. Ever notice a big stain on the tablecloth and found yourself running to the store at the last minute to buy one full price?
Holiday fun can wreak havoc on your budget, but it doesn’t have to. Now is the time to get a jump start on planning, and to put away money for the details that are important to you. Think of it as your own layaway plan. Take money out of each check, and spread out your spending, that way you won’t have buyer’s regret in January.
Doing this now may make January 2020 less stressful.
Tipping – Should You And How Much
Do you ever wonder should you tip this person? Personally, the answer for me is sometimes “yes” and sometimes “no”. For me it depends on the service I receive – was it
good or exceptional, did someone go out of there way and do something extra?
When I am in a restaurant, yes I tip the server. When I use a car park service, yes I tip the attendant. Also, I tip for personal services – hair cuts, nails, porter at airport and more. The list goes on and on. There are so many to tip in our lives, and even more so now that the holidays are approaching. But who and what do you tip and how much?
And the next question for me is – how much? Cash is always a great option for giving, but may not be the answer for your budget. Other ideas, might be a thank you note, a call to a company to tell them what I great experience you received from someone that works there, a bouquet of flowers, baked goods, etc.
As the holidays approach, here are suggestions from Real Simple Magazine with who and what.
Asking Those Questions
With the holidays fat approaching and family gatherings, now is the time to assess your life.
For those of us in the sandwich generations (parents and kids), you need to think about your aging parents. Are they prepared for what comes next? Are you prepared for what’s next?
Where are some ideas for what you need to know:
- What are their finals wishes
- Do you know what assets, insurance policies, etc they have and where are those documents?
- Do they have all the legal paperwork in place – wills, power of attorney, medical directives, etc
It’s a difficult conversation to have, but it’s extremely helpful to do this ahead of time.
Personally, my father was very forthcoming with this information, so I had it easy. But even then, there was still a life insurance policy he must have forgotten about. I found it through a search of unclaimed funds website for my state. It was probably a policy that he (or his parents) had taken out years before.
I can’t imagine not having this information and knowing where things are. What about you? Do your kids know this information about you?
Take some time to have this important conversation when your family gets together.
What’s In Your Wallet?
As the holidays approach, I want you to have a a happy, healthy and safe holiday season. Spend some time with family, friends doing the things that you like and want to share.
As you are having a great time out and about, I want you to consider this. To coin a phrase, what’s in your wallet? Here are a few things that should NOT be in your wallet for the holidays or other times of the year:
- Social Security Card
- Passport (carry only when traveling internationally)
- Passwords List
The less in your wallet, the better it is for you, if it’s stolen. For more items, AARP’s article 7 Items To Leave Home.
When my purse was stolen, I was fortunate to be able to cancel my credit cards, cell phone etc. The transaction that occurred, took quite a while to have reversed and cleared. Don’t let this happen to you.
Bon Voyage to Your Debt – Part 5
Say Bon Voyage to Your Debt Part 5: Make a Custom Plan
With Step 5, we’re going to get into the hard stuff – the actual debt payoff. If you have kept up with the series of newsletters or the Facebook group, you have completed the following:
- You have reflected on the actions, inaction, thought process, or events that got you into debt.
- You have “faced the truth” by compiling a complete list of your debt.
- You have reflected on ways that you can find more money in your budget or bring in more income.
- You have started your emergency savings plan.
With these steps in place, it’s time to create your own custom action plan for paying off the debt.
To start, you need to do some brainstorming.
Sit down with paper and pen (or at your computer) and write down your answers to this question: “What can I do today to lower my debt?” Just write the first 20 ideas that come to mind – you can worry about whether they’re even possible later.
Your list might look like this:
“What can I do today to lower my debt?”
- Consolidate my credit card debt into one monthly payment
- Apply for a home equity line of credit for debt consolidation
- Sell home and downsize
- Live frugally and only buy essentials so that I can pay off the debt faster
- Stop funding my / our retirement until the debt is paid off
- Apply for zero percent balance transfer to pay off debt quicker
Now, put the list away and wait a few days. Stepping back from what might be a difficult choice will help you reevaluate your priorities.
After 2 or 3 days, come back to your list and choose one. There is no right or wrong answer. Remember, you are designing a plan that tailor-made for your individual goals and needs. You have to determine what is best for you and your situation.
Now, go through the process of exploring whether that choice will work for you. You may have to contact a third party like a bank, mortgage broker, real estate agent, etc. You may have to look for zero percent balance transfer offers. You may have to get the whole family on board to see if they can live on a smaller budget. If it all works out, then you can start your plan. If not, go back to your list, choose another option, and explore it thoroughly.
Because you didn’t accumulate your debt overnight, it won’t be going away overnight either. You will make your choice (you can try many choices on the list), and you may need to follow through on it for over a year or for several years.
This whole process is definitely worth your while, because you will gain control over your finances. You will stop working just to pay your creditors, and actually save money as you eliminate the finance charges you’ve been paying.
Yes, I know (and have been there) that these are hard choices to make. But if I can do it so can you.
Bon Voyage to Your Debt – Part 4
Say Bon Voyage to Your Debt Part 4: Prepare for Surprises
Step four might surprise you.
I want you to start an emergency savings account and your goal is to save an initial $1,000. Yes, you read that right.
Why would I tell you to put money into savings when you’re trying to pay down debt? It’s not like the interest you earn is going to be more than the interest you’re paying, right?
Because, if you don’t have a savings account to fall back on, you’ll be back in debt the next time you’re blindsided by an unexpected repair or medical bill. Life happens. If you don’t have money in the bank, how will you pay for the surprises it brings? With a credit card or a loan? It’s a bad habit, and it’s better to start breaking it now rather than later.
Just like your debt didn’t happen overnight, your emergency savings isn’t going to happen overnight, either.
1. Make a plan to save money from each paycheck.
2. Start small with $5 per week and increase over time.
3. Remember to pay savings first (and automatically) before you pay the bills.
You can put money in savings automatically through your payroll department. If you don’t have a direct deposit service through work, you can set it up with automatic transfers at the bank.
As I said, start small and work your way up. The ideal goal is to put 10% of your income into savings. But first, start with the emergency fund so the little emergencies don’t discourage you from your quest of paying down your debt
Next issue: We will actually start paying off your debt – bet you thought we wouldn’t get to this.
Bon Voyage to Your Debt – Part 3
Say Bon Voyage Part 3: Finding the Money
In step 3 of Say Bon Voyage to Your Debt, we are going to look at ways to find more money.
One way to “find” money is by plugging the leaks in your spending. You’ll take back that wasted cash and put it where it can do some good. To do this, you need to know where your money is going, and that means tracking your spending. For more information on how to do this, see Step 2. We personally do this several times a year, and we are doing this for July along with the group.
You are going to have to make some tough choices by reducing and eliminating expenses. Here are a few common budget leaks to get you thinking:
- Bring food and beverages from home versus buying out.
- Rent a movie from the library and make homemade popcorn instead spending $20 each at the theater.
- Have a potluck dinner with family and friends instead of splitting the cost of a restaurant bill.
- Institute a “don’t buy” month (you can buy needs but not “wants”).
- Do free activities – in summer there are lots of options. We attend festivals, and concerts and movies in the park.
- Reduce your bills by eliminating unneeded services (lawn, cable TV, premium channels, etc.)
- Do things yourself versus hiring someone. Some home projects can be tackled with the help of the internet and your hardware store’s advice.
- Buy used versus new. About 20 years ago we bought our patio set used for $100 (table for six, including cushioned chairs, chaise lounge, and end table). We are still using this set and have only replaced the cushions. It would have cost ten times the price if we bought it new.
These are just suggestions. Think about your own lifestyle to find reductions that will work for you.
Another way to find money is to make money. You don’t have to get a second job, necessarily. Here are some creative ways to increase your income.
- Sell unwanted items for cash. Think tag sale, online sales, free classified ads in a local paper, etc. People love a good deal! We’ve have sold everything from new toothbrush heads to a car online.
- Earn some extra cash. There are websites that will help you connect with people who need your skills. Do your research before you commit.
- Use your hobbies to earn extra money. Don’t start a business that requires lots of money. Instead, rent out your skills or sell your handiwork. If you’re a gardener, rent yourself as someone who does spring planting or puts the fall plantings to bed. If you’re a scrapbooker, organize other people’s photos. Do you have extra handiwork laying around? Sell it on Etsy.
- Rent out extra space. Do you have extra space in your garage or a spare bedroom? Rent them out. Again, do your research and get references.
Now think about what you can do to earn money. You might be surprised at finding an enjoyable second income that works well for you and your family.
For more information and support, join my free private Facebook group “Say Bon Voyage to Your Debt”. We officially started on July 3, but you can still join to get the individual support and worksheets. Sign up here: www.facebook.com/groups/PayOffYourDebt/. To receive a bonus budget tracker, sign up through my newsletter
In our next issue, we will tackle something unexpected.
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