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A Note from Jill

Cash-heartWho Gets Your Stuff? I asked you to think about that in Friday’s Quick Tips.We just opened our Health Savings Checking Account and we had to list a beneficiary.  That got me wondering who we had listed on our other accounts. Things change. The person who seemed like the perfect beneficiary five years ago, may not be our first choice today – not because we’re cutting people off or choosing new favorites, but because we have lost some loved ones and gained new people to love and care for.

Our Newsletter is getting a name change – but what will it be? We’re going to do some branding changes around here. Quick Tips will become something new, fresh and inspiring and we need a new name. We received a few suggestions, but we’d love more.

Want to help? Submit your name suggestions to jill@jillrussofoster.com or on Facebook, LinkedIn,  Twitter or reply to this post. I know you have some great ideas, so share ’em with me!

Jill Russo Foster

You’ll have to prove it. Make sure you have the paperwork.

will-inheritance

Things that mean very little in a court of law:

  • Your memories
  • Your mother’s memories
  • Your friends opinions
  • Photos of you smiling with some of your stuff in the background.

What am I getting at? I want you to face the fact that paperwork is part of life.

You can have a lot of wonderful things without legal documents: love; a nice meal; a beautiful sunset. But, you can’t get legally married, register the birth of your child, or insure your home without them. So, if you’re basking in the glow of a beautiful sunset in your own backyard, enjoying a barbecue, and surrounded by family and friends – there was paperwork involved.

Don’t slack on it. Strive to keep it up-to-date on an annual basis. Neglecting your paperwork can be just as bad for your family life as neglecting a loved one’s birthday.

Go through your files and check up on your:

  • Life insurance
  • Long Term Care insurance that may combine with life insurance
  • Retirement accounts – IRA’s, 401K / 403B, Roth IRA’s
  • Savings bonds
  • Bank accounts that are payable on death
  • Investments (stocks, bonds etc)

Legal documents are too often overlooked and the results can be devastating. Who’s in charge of your stuff if you suddenly pass away. If you haven’t updated your paperwork, you may have left everything to an unreliable friend, or a deceased parent instead of your spouse or adult child. In this case, I suggest that you name a second beneficiary.  For our wills, we even have a third beneficiary.  My attorney suggested this and it’s terrific.  When my father passed away, I didn’t have to update my will.  My second choice was already in place.  How easy was that?

I know you’re busy, but when you, or your family, are dealing with a major life crisis, you won’t want to spend time thinking about these things. Make a habit of reviewing your important documents on a regular basis so your loved ones will receive the things you labored to give them.

If you need more convincing, check out this ABC news story

Who said taxes are free?

taxes and uncle sam
 

Yes, it’s that time of year again – tax time. We’ve had some delays on the government’s end. You won’t be able to file early in January (if that was your plan). That’s tough luck if you were hoping to get your refund right away. But, it could have been worse. We may have had to wait until late March.

The delay is caused by last minute tax changes.  Forms have to be adjusted before your tax preparer can submit your taxes.  The earliest you can file electronically this year is January 30th. And, you may have to wait until late February or early March if you’re claiming credits related to energy, property or business,

In the meantime, you can get your taxes prepared. 

Don’t delay things on your end just because you can’t file. You don’t want to wait until the last minute then realize you can’t find the all important paperwork to back up your tax return.

You may be able to get your taxes prepared for free AND from a reputable source.

There’s help if you’re a senior or have a low to moderate income.

Go to www.IRS.gov to find information on the VITA program (Volunteer Income Tax Assistance), the TCE Program and AARP Tax-Aide.

There you can learn

  • If you qualify for the program
  • What to do bring to the meeting
  • Locations near you

You don’t have to be afraid to use these services. The tax preparers at these programs are certified volunteers who work under a qualified supervisor.  The location near me is at the local community college and is supervised by a CPA and Chair of the Accounting Department.

Each location will have different hours, so check before you make the trip. Some will take appointments and some are walk-in only.

If you qualify, you may save yourself a few hundred dollars. You’ll get the work done at no cost to yourself and a trained preparer can catch details that might net you a bigger return.

Credit Report Reminder from Jill Russo Foster: Start 2013 with good financial information

It’s January 2013! Time to start the year off right!

This month use Experian

credit_report_januaryHello, it’s Jill again, reminding you to get your finances in order for the New Year by checking your credit report.

Order your credit report from www.AnnualCreditReport.com. This is the ONLY authorized source for the no cost annual credit report that’s yours by law. You have the right to know. Exercise your rights! Learn more.

When ordering online:

  1. Select your state, then click Request Report.
  2. Fill out your information, then click Continue.
  3. When it asks you to select a service, select Experian.

Not comfortable ordering online? There are three ways you can order your report:

  • Order online at www.AnnualCreditReport.com. By ordering online you can have your report back in minutes!
  • Mail your postal order by downloading the form at www.AnnualCreditReport.com
  • Call in your order at 1-877-322-8228

It doesn’t matter how you get your report, the most important thing is that you do! Then…

  • Review it for accuracy!
  • Follow the instructions with the report to correct any errors.
  • And, always remember to keep copies for your records.

Were you hoping to get your credit score instead? Try CreditKarma.com. CreditKarma does not supply a FICO score, but it does provide scores from TransUnion and VantageScore. And, there’s no charge for you. CreditKarma funds their service through website advertising.

May you have a blessed and successful year!

Jill Russo Foster

P.S. I’ll give you another reminder in May and September to help you stay up-to-date on your credit throughout the year.

Get things done to start the year right!

NewYear-resolutionsThere are several things I do in January to make a fresh start for myself and my family.

I take the credit cards out of my wallet and put them in my copy machine. Why do I do this? So, I’ll have up-to-date information on my cards in case my wallet is lost or stolen. If you want to do this, too, make sure to spread your cards out on the paper so you’ll have room to hand-write the contact phone numbers found on the back of the cards. This serves a few purposes:

  1. You won’t have to go online or search past bills for contact numbers in case you need to cancel those cards in a hurry.
  2. You will know exactly which cards you need to call on, and,
  3. You’ll remember to take the credit cards off the copier.

I set new files for 2013.  This includes my accordion multi-pocket folder for this years’ tax information.  If I am organized at the start of the year, I will be all set for the accountant at year end.

I shred our paystubs when the W-2’s come in. Check to make sure they agree first!

We review last year’s bills. We really like to save money on every day expenses so we can afford the the things we really enjoy. So, we look at how we’ve spent our money in the past year to see if we can make any improvements.  In the past, we have deregulated our electric, lowered our cell phone package, and cut out TV channels we don’t watch.  We have made choices about what subscriptions to keep and what not to renew, keeping only the most useful magazines and memberships.

January is a month we plan our extra spending. These are the expenses that aren’t in the usual monthly budget, but are essential to our standard of living. If you want to plan your extra spending, here are some examples and tips:

  1. What do you want to do this year for fun?  We usually already have a vacation or two in mind.
  2. What big events are taking place for your family or circle of friends?  You usually know a year in advance if someone is planning a family reunion or getting married. Be sure to factor in travel costs.
  3. What home projects do you need or want?  With this past year’s weather, you may be thinking it’s time for that major improvement to your home.

If you need to spend money to have it, then it’s worth planning ahead.  It’s so much easier and less stressful to have the money saved than to try to figure out where can to get the money at the last minute.

Happy Holidays!

Wishing You a Peaceful Holiday Season
and a Prosperous New Year!

What Free Teleclasses Can I Offer You?

Take the survey and tell me what you need to know!

You will be entered into a drawing to win a free 30 minute coaching call with Jill Russo Foster. On the call, you can ask any financial question you need to know in complete privacy and confidentiality.
 
Thank You!We have some exciting things happening here for 2013. We’ll be offering free teleclasses with you in mind. The topics will be based on the answers you give in the survey and your suggestions.  This is your chance to make 2013 the best year for you and your finances.

Everyone who takes the survey will be entered into a drawing to win a free 30-minute coaching session. Feel free to share the survey with your friends and family and give them to a chance to win! You can spread the word by sharing the links to my Facebook, LinkedIn, and Twitter accounts or my blog.

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Happy Thanksgiving from Jill Russo Foster

Of Breakups and Closed Accounts

In our last issue, we discussed whether you should blend your finances when you get into a relationship. Money will be your biggest source of friction, and having boundaries doesn’t hurt. I listed some of the different financial relationships couples choose. There are different options besides “What’s mine is mine and never ‘ours’ or “It’s all or nothing or I’m out of here.”

Sometimes your best efforts to create a life together fail, and the relationship ends. Today, we’ll discuss how to unblend your finances. Whether you decided to share all of your accounts, or only share expenses, you should separate your finances as soon as possible, because you can be sure that someone’s name is on the wrong paperwork.

Take a look at your…

  • Rent or Mortgage: Who is on the lease agreement or loan? It should be the one who actually lives there. Ignore that piece of wisdom and risk having your home sold out from under you.
  • Utilities, cable, and cell phone: Whose name is on the accounts? They should be in the name of the person using them. If you don’t transfer ownership, you could have your utilities cut off without notice.
  • Insurance: This includes car, apartment, home, life, and medical. You don’t want to be without insurance, and you don’t want your money going to the wrong person if you don’t update your beneficiaries.
  • Credit cards and loans: Do you want to have your credit affected by charges that aren’t yours, or be forced to make payments on a car you don’t use?

“But Jill,” you say, “these all sound like things that happen in a hostile breakup. We’re not like that.”  Even if your breakup is friendly, and your ex is as trustworthy and competent as a super hero’s alter ego, you still need to separate your accounts to protect yourself in case something happens to one of you. If one of you dies, or is mentally incapacitated, the law won’t recognize verbal agreements or promises. They only see whose name is on a piece of paper.

Let’s talk about verbal agreements. Let’s say the house and car loan are in your name, but you want to be nice. You don’t need them, and your ex does. Your ex has agreed to make payments, so it’s no big deal, right?

Wrong. Your credit will take a hit with the first missed, or late, payment. And, you may not be able to get a new car or house for yourself because your debt to income ratio is too high. The bank won’t take verbal agreements with your ex into consideration when you apply for your loan.

Here’s something else to think about: Can you maintain your current lifestyle if you live separately?

If you end up with the house or the car, can you afford the payments? Can you pay for the utilities, the maintenance and the insurance? You may have to make tough decisions, because you could be without the things you need to live if you don’t plan ahead.

Too many people have  found themselves temporarily homeless, or had their credit ruined, after a breakup. Don’t let this happen to you.

Of Love and Shared Bank Accounts

love and money

I recently led a discussion about relationships and money: how to blend, and end, your finances with someone else. Questions were asked, and there were some interesting conversations going on in the room. Then, a few weeks ago, a long time reader of Quick Tips asked about shared bank accounts. I decided it was time to write about this subject again.

First of all, you may choose not to blend your finances at all. Many couples keep separate accounts and actually have happier and more successful partnerships because there are fewer arguments about who spent money on what and who overdrew the bank account. Others choose to handle their money and debts together, and they do just fine. The choice is yours.

Look at your habits and goals when you consider whether to combine your accounts or keep them separate:

  • How does each of you handle savings and debt repayment? Do you have similar philosophies, or are your bank balances mirror opposites, with one carrying a large debt balance and the other carrying a large savings balance?
  • Do you have the same financial goals? Or, is one of you saving mainly towards retirement, while the other wants to save for amazing vacations and a nice car.
  • Does one, or both, of you have any issues that you would bring into a blended financial arrangement? For example, are there any debts that are currently in collections or that were charged off; bankruptcy; judgments; wage garnishments; or tax liens?

Some people find this subject to be a touchy one. I even received an angry comment on my blog by someone who insisted that married people should share everything equally. But, keeping separate accounts isn’t about holding out, or being less in love. Sometimes, it’s about protecting each other and making decisions that will carry you furthest towards your mutual goals.

If You Have Separate Accounts, How Do You Split Expenses?

Most people assume 50/50, but there are other options. You could choose different percentages based on incomes, family size, habits and hobbies. For example, if you have shared custody of your 3 kids with a former partner, then you might pay a higher percentage of the food bill. If your hobby raises the electric bill (gaming, woodworking, sewing), then you might pay a higher percentage of the utilities. You don’t have to use percentages – you can divide up the bills, where one of you pays for this expense and the other pays for that expense. The choices are as varied as the couples who make them.

The bottom line is that you need to make informed choices that are right for you individually and as a couple. Money is the biggest source of friction in relationships. Have the conversation before you get married or move in together, so you know what to expect ahead of time. If you’re already living together, it’s not too late to make changes.

Next issue, I’ll talk about separating your finances after the relationship ends.

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